help!!! said...
I need help! I have some girls who keep telling everyone that we are going out. she also keeps asking me out. Last dance I made one of them cry because I wouldn't dance with them and now she wants me to go to the dance with her. Plain & simple, I need help.
well, you're gonna have to be careful in this situation, b/c if u misstep they could end up flipping out on you even more. Ok, well, they'll probably flip out on you anyway, but if you want them to leave you alone, you'll have to be pretty firm with them and let them know you're not interested. There are two ways you can do that. either you can grit your teeth and tell them (as nicely as possible, but still firmly) that you don't like them or you can ask out your crush and hopefully go out w/ her so that these other girls get the message. the second way is definitely that way you don't wanna go, b/c they may just yell at you more for leading them on or something and it'll just hurt them more. You definitely should apologize to that girl for making her cry, even if it's not your fault, b/c you'll look like a nice person and maybe they'll be nicer to you later if you're nice to them.
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i have a boy problem: okay so for spring break, we went to mexico with my sister and her friendss. my sis's bff's brother was there (mike) so mike me and my 2 brothers all hung out together. at night, we would play elevator tag. we would split up two and two. at first mike and i were on a team and the rounds were long so we played like 1 then the days inbetween we always switched off. on the last night there, we were playing elevator tag and me and mike both wanted to be on each others teams. will we were hiding one time we went into a small room wiht a phone in it and talked for like ten minutes. (the phone booth was out of bounds) then we thought that my brothers would get mad so we left. that was 2 weeks ago. now we have been home for like 1.5 weeks. i hadnt seen him since break, but at the movies on sat we ran into each other. he was wearing a hat, so i texted him from across the room and said you dont look cool in that hat. (like sarcastically-- we always made fun of each other on break...) and then since then we have been constantly texting. not like every second, but like at least a few times each day. last night i stayed up until 12:30 texting him but then i fell asleep. so here is my problem. 1. i dont know if i like him, but i am pretty sure i do. 2. idk if he likes me? thats my main thing.. do you think he does? 3. he is a sophmore and i am a freshmen, so we like dont have the same friends or anything.
any advice would be great!
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