Pregnancy Problems

sexaddict said...
is it appropriate for a 13 year old guy to lose his virginity?

sexaddict said...
my gf just got pregnant and i dont know what to get her for christmas. can you help?

to ur first question: NO! it is definitely NOT appropriate for 13 year olds to have sex-- of any kind! i don't care if it's normal, oral, or anal- you guys should not be having it!!!
ok, if you want to get ur pregnant girlfriend something for christmas (i seriously hope ur not 13!!!) maybe buy her some cute maternity clothes, or maybe u should propose. not in an old fashioned way, u guys could keep going out and take care of the kid together, but u can't walk out on her and ur kid. that would make u a total ass.
<3 Opal

Cutting Crisis

my brother and i fight a lot. last night was the worst though. now i have feelings that i cant control, and i want to start cutting. what should i do? and please dont tell me to tell my parents because that really wouldnt help. thanks.

ok, please do not cut urself! it's dangerous and it's not going to help anything. what you need to do is start doing things to calm yourself down. like yoga or knitting or something. cutting is definitely not the answer, you shouldn't be hurting yourself and it won't accomplish anything. you should probably avoid your brother or at least talk to him about it. Or, this might be a bad idea, you could find like a group where you can talk about stuff. it could really help, just don't do anything that would hurt yourself or others, alright?
<3 Opal

Special Someone

many guys are surprisingly easy to shop for. What's his favorite sports team? Maybe you could get him a cool sweatshirt or hat with his sport's team on it. Or does he play for a sports team? Maybe get him a cool soccerball or football. Sometimes there are those stores that sell signed sports equiptment or pictures, so if you can afford it, go out and buy him something special that's signed by his favorite player.
Now if he's a sensitive guy, i think that he'll enjoy anything you get him, especially if it came from your heart. So i would suggest you make him something. Try a scrapbook you made out of pictures of you two together, or even some songs that both of you like on a cd for him.
Some other creative gift ideas i like are engraved dog tags because i think that they're personal, but guys aren't going to have a problem wearing them because they're "cool."

There are soooooo many different things to get him, so just use your imagination and find something special.



xoxo aubrey xoxo

Present Problems

need something to get my girlfriend for xmas (my sister showed me your blog, im not that wierd) it has to be $20-$30, were 14/15 age group, and shes not super girly-shes not like a sports person either but stuff like a manicure is bad-her bday is on the 13th so i need 2 pressents!!!!!!
-- Jack

Why don't you get her a gift card to like hollister or something? Or maybe you could get her a peice of jewelry she'd like, so she'd be reminded of you every time she wore it (ask ur sister for help again). or if she's nerdy get her a book. oooh or maybe an itunes gift card. and if gift cards are too impersonal for you, write her a letter about why/how much u love her and all the good times you've had.

xoxo Aubrey & Opal xoxo