help!!! said...
I need help! I have some girls who keep telling everyone that we are going out. she also keeps asking me out. Last dance I made one of them cry because I wouldn't dance with them and now she wants me to go to the dance with her. Plain & simple, I need help.
well, you're gonna have to be careful in this situation, b/c if u misstep they could end up flipping out on you even more. Ok, well, they'll probably flip out on you anyway, but if you want them to leave you alone, you'll have to be pretty firm with them and let them know you're not interested. There are two ways you can do that. either you can grit your teeth and tell them (as nicely as possible, but still firmly) that you don't like them or you can ask out your crush and hopefully go out w/ her so that these other girls get the message. the second way is definitely that way you don't wanna go, b/c they may just yell at you more for leading them on or something and it'll just hurt them more. You definitely should apologize to that girl for making her cry, even if it's not your fault, b/c you'll look like a nice person and maybe they'll be nicer to you later if you're nice to them.
<3 opal
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
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