sad sista said...
theres this gossip page going around about my school and it says something about me that is not true. is this legal what they are doing or is there anything i can do about it? how can i find out who it might be?
Actually, that's called slander and it's definitely NOT legal. if you can afford a lawyer, you could probably make a case. if the gossip page is an email, just check the address (it may be that the person is using a fake address, but if you look at it, you'll probably figure out who it is). If it's a blog, check the user name. and if it's just a peice of paper, check the hand writing. I know it'll be hard to do, but if you're a really good hacker and it's printed, you could always just figure out where it was printed from. Whatever they're saying isn't true, so do stuff that proves it. if it says you're a slut, don't date for awhile, or keep one bf for a long time. just try to make people realize that whatever it said wasn't true.
<3 opal
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Friday, September 28, 2007
Sick of Her
i really really need your help. there is this girl who is a complete bitch but i have to hang out with her all the time because we both work togeather. she acts nice to me to my face and then is really mean about me behind my back. what should i do??
-- Sick of the Bitch
i know it'll be hard to talk to her, but if you can just casually mention that you aren't happy with the way she's been talking about you behind your back. don't encourage her either, she's obviously not worth your time. just be icily polite to her and try to minimize the time you spend with her. for instance, instead of working as a group, suggest that you work on halves of the project seperatley. if this is a year-round thing, just try not to tell her anything important.
<3 Opal
-- Sick of the Bitch
i know it'll be hard to talk to her, but if you can just casually mention that you aren't happy with the way she's been talking about you behind your back. don't encourage her either, she's obviously not worth your time. just be icily polite to her and try to minimize the time you spend with her. for instance, instead of working as a group, suggest that you work on halves of the project seperatley. if this is a year-round thing, just try not to tell her anything important.
<3 Opal
Friday, September 14, 2007
Bra Blow-up
Tiff said...
The most embarassing thing happend in chem today. I was over the bunson burner and my water bra exploded and stained my white shirt! I had icky blue gel all over my shirt, AND i go to a co-ed school. The rest of the day all the guy said "careful, her boobs might explode on you." It was so embarrassing!! BUt it got worse, because I had to go tothe nurse and get "cleaned up" which meant I had to go to the lost and found and find a bra, which turned out to be the kind with the mesh material that makes your boobs all pointy. And the only shirt they had there was one that smelled like sweat and feet.
I don't know if I really want advice right now, or to move to another school.
We understand your pain, we really do. I really think that everyone has at least one time in there life where they have completely humiliated themselves infront of a group of people and wanted to transferr schools. Obviously this already happend, and there really isn't anything you can do about it but if the boys make fun of you, just be like, "That's getting really old," or you could try, "that's really immature." Besides, you really shouldn't care what they say because they are only trying to hurt you, but don't let it bother you because when something embarassing happens to them, you'll have something to bug them about. Not to say that you should because that isn't the way to solve anything, but if they happen to metion your mis-hap, you can just say, "Remember when...." That should make them be quiet. I have this kid in my school who calls me and my best friend acne face. It's really mean, but i really don't care because he isn't my friend so his opinion doesn't matter to me. Again, as i said before, everyone gets pimples and have normal teenage problems just like you so don't listen to what boys say, because they are just boys. Besides, do you really think that them saying this stuff is really going to affect you in the long run? No it shouldn't. Eventually this will pass over whether they forget about it or someone else makes a fool out of themselves and they pick on them next. In which case you should stick up for them because you've been in their postion. Thanks for your question and we hope we helped you.
xoxo The Experts xoxo
The most embarassing thing happend in chem today. I was over the bunson burner and my water bra exploded and stained my white shirt! I had icky blue gel all over my shirt, AND i go to a co-ed school. The rest of the day all the guy said "careful, her boobs might explode on you." It was so embarrassing!! BUt it got worse, because I had to go tothe nurse and get "cleaned up" which meant I had to go to the lost and found and find a bra, which turned out to be the kind with the mesh material that makes your boobs all pointy. And the only shirt they had there was one that smelled like sweat and feet.
I don't know if I really want advice right now, or to move to another school.
We understand your pain, we really do. I really think that everyone has at least one time in there life where they have completely humiliated themselves infront of a group of people and wanted to transferr schools. Obviously this already happend, and there really isn't anything you can do about it but if the boys make fun of you, just be like, "That's getting really old," or you could try, "that's really immature." Besides, you really shouldn't care what they say because they are only trying to hurt you, but don't let it bother you because when something embarassing happens to them, you'll have something to bug them about. Not to say that you should because that isn't the way to solve anything, but if they happen to metion your mis-hap, you can just say, "Remember when...." That should make them be quiet. I have this kid in my school who calls me and my best friend acne face. It's really mean, but i really don't care because he isn't my friend so his opinion doesn't matter to me. Again, as i said before, everyone gets pimples and have normal teenage problems just like you so don't listen to what boys say, because they are just boys. Besides, do you really think that them saying this stuff is really going to affect you in the long run? No it shouldn't. Eventually this will pass over whether they forget about it or someone else makes a fool out of themselves and they pick on them next. In which case you should stick up for them because you've been in their postion. Thanks for your question and we hope we helped you.
xoxo The Experts xoxo
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Eating Issues
so i just saw my firend after the summer break...and she looked abnormally skinny. now before the break she was on a diet and im glad that she stuck to it...but now she was braggina about her diet and her body and its getting on my nerves. like, she loooks anorexic. and me im not stick skinny, but im muscular, and she is like, i wonder whose this are skinnier, yours or mine, but she is bitchy about it. imean shes been my friend for a long time and stuff, and if she has a eating problem, then i should be there for her. but i cant take the bragging much longer.............
michelle
Well, the ideal way to deal with it would be to just let her know that the way she's been talking to you is getting on your nerves, but that's not likely and u can't just walk out on her. you'll probably regret it later. Try changing the subject everytime she brings it up, or maybe you could just subtley hint that you don't like the subject. as for her having an eating disorder, i don't think you can like really ask her about that, unless you're really straight forward with her. i guess you could watch to see if she eats, but u wouldn't really know if she was bulimic. I guess if she looses any more weight u should talk to her about it. at least to say that she's getting so thin that it's creepy.
michelle
Well, the ideal way to deal with it would be to just let her know that the way she's been talking to you is getting on your nerves, but that's not likely and u can't just walk out on her. you'll probably regret it later. Try changing the subject everytime she brings it up, or maybe you could just subtley hint that you don't like the subject. as for her having an eating disorder, i don't think you can like really ask her about that, unless you're really straight forward with her. i guess you could watch to see if she eats, but u wouldn't really know if she was bulimic. I guess if she looses any more weight u should talk to her about it. at least to say that she's getting so thin that it's creepy.
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Rumor Problems
Canidee said...
OMG, I have this horrible reputation of dating too many guys. People call me a slut and I don't know what to do! The rumors that are going around are horrible, but true. How do I lost my reputation and stop those rumers?
well, since the rumors are true, u can't prove them false, so this is going to be difficult. I guess what ur going to have to do is be on ur best behavior and not mess around or date anyone so that eventually people start to think, "oh, well i guess she's not as much of a slut as i thouht she was." or u can date just one guy to prove u don't date around. I don't want to be harsh, but u've kind of gotten urself into this situation and now the only thing u can do is try to prove ur better than that. oh and don't retaliate when people call u a slut. people tend to talk more when they don't like a person so if u act nice, maybe people will start to like u and feel bad about talking behind ur back and just generally being bitchy to u.
<33 Opal
Not to insult you or anything, but if the rumors are true, then they aren't rumors, and there is really nothing you can do about them because, well, they are true. That's what happens when you do things you probably shouldn't be doing. So maybe you just shouldn't date anyone for a while and like opal said, they may start to change their minds.
xoxo Aubrey xoxo
OMG, I have this horrible reputation of dating too many guys. People call me a slut and I don't know what to do! The rumors that are going around are horrible, but true. How do I lost my reputation and stop those rumers?
well, since the rumors are true, u can't prove them false, so this is going to be difficult. I guess what ur going to have to do is be on ur best behavior and not mess around or date anyone so that eventually people start to think, "oh, well i guess she's not as much of a slut as i thouht she was." or u can date just one guy to prove u don't date around. I don't want to be harsh, but u've kind of gotten urself into this situation and now the only thing u can do is try to prove ur better than that. oh and don't retaliate when people call u a slut. people tend to talk more when they don't like a person so if u act nice, maybe people will start to like u and feel bad about talking behind ur back and just generally being bitchy to u.
<33 Opal
Not to insult you or anything, but if the rumors are true, then they aren't rumors, and there is really nothing you can do about them because, well, they are true. That's what happens when you do things you probably shouldn't be doing. So maybe you just shouldn't date anyone for a while and like opal said, they may start to change their minds.
xoxo Aubrey xoxo
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