Anonymous said...
So I really like this guy in my english class, but we have been school friends for around a year. I kinda think that he might maybe like me too, but i can't tell at all. he doesn't really hang out with anyone cause hes really busy with soccer, so i can't ask any of his friends because thay don't know. i have liked him for a while, but i don't know what to do. i don't really want to wait, and i have been freindly and everyhting around him. i just want to know if he likes me back because its driving me CRAZY!!! how can i tell if he likes me?
Well first things first, does he have a girlfriend? If he does, he's off limits, at least for the time being. If he doesn't then definetly go for it. You really need to be stratigic about how you approach it though because depending on what type of guy he is, flirting levels are different. Basically, if hes spending time with girls a lot, hes obviously used to flirting, so maybe just being nice isn't enough; as opposed to a guy who is involved with his studies or other activities like sports, and doesn't have time for girls, which seems to be the case here. You need to ask yourself some questions like why you like him or if you're even ready for a boyfriend, especially one who may not have enough time for you due to soccer, before you decide to pursue this because you need to decide if he's worth it. If you decide that you really like him still, then, I know this may be hard but it works, so just tell him how you feel and get it over with. If he says he doesn't like you, move on. Obviously it wasn't ment to be. Don't try to beg him to like you or be really clingy and stalk him to make him like you either or you'll look desperate. Just accept it. Now if you're too afraid to do that, just get your friends to ask around. A little investigation couldn't hurt. Just have a friend you trust do it, otherwise it could end up bad with rumors flying around that you like him and if he doesn't like you, that will make the rejection ten times worse. Now if he does happen to like you, I say that you should wait for him to ask you out, but if you feel comfortable enough, then go ahead and you ask him. Whatever you decide to do, let me know what happens because this happens to plenty of people, and I want this to turn out well for you.
Good Luck!!
xoxo Aubrey xoxo
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over the weekend i went to a party. we played normal party games and stuff like that. so i ended up making out with this one guy. he is kinda "off-limits", not like girlfriend "off-limits" like bad history* with me and my friends (but i couldn't not, I AM NOT A CHICKEN!!)and he is a REALLY good kisser. like really really. everytime i think about him i smile and now i think i might like him, but i can't because of what he did to his past gfs and my friends. i don't know what to do, b/c i know i don't like him, but at the moment i can't stop thinking about him!!!!!!! help me now!!!!! please!!!!!!!!!!
-NEED HELP LIKE NOWWWWWW!!!!!!!
*he cheated on like half his girlfriends and made out with another girl infront of my bff when they were dating. hes not like sketchy bad, just really hot and hard to resist. also he got really drunk one time and we had to hide him in my friends basement all night cuz he couldnt go home cuz his parents would kill (i mean it)and he threw up and everything and was crazy at the begining and madeout with like everyone there and other things i will not mention. but hes not a jerk, even though he sounds like one, he is really nice like at school and things like that, just very like makey-outy. you know what i mean?
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